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Giving orphans identity: I AM boxes

While she lived in Swaziland, Lisa Black fell in love with the orphan children of Nsoko.  She called them “children of the dirt”; they have nothing, no parents, no food, no possessions. In some cases a sister of eleven years old is the head of the household.  In other cases a three…
By Seth Barnes
By Seth Barnes

While she lived in Swaziland, Lisa Black fell in love with the orphan children of Nsoko.  She called them “children of the dirt“; they have nothing, no parents, no food, no possessions.


In some cases a sister of eleven years old is the head of the household.  In other cases a three year old toddler may have to make the mile-long trek by themselves from their homestead to our carepoints to get food.

Lisa realized that many of these little children have no sense of identity – they are numb, with nothing to call their own, no one to give them hugs or speak tenderly to them.

She asked God what could be done and he gave her the concept of “I AM boxes” – a wooden box they could put little trinkets and Bible verses in, complete with a  mirror on the lid for them to look in.  Here’s how she describes her vision: “The I AM boxes will represent the individual stories, the truth of
their lives, and the Identity given to them by the Lord, and the TRUTH
of who they are called to be. The idea is dispelling shame, healing,
and speaking truth and life. The children will also actually OWN
something that is exclusively theirs to hold their minimal treasures,
including their most important treasure, the Word of God.”

On our recent trip to Swaziland, we gave I AM boxes to 70 orphans.  I spent time helping Mbuso make his I AM box.  Mbuso didn’t say much, but he followed my lead. 
 
We made a bracelet then painted the box.  I would outline a flower or a tree and then he’d fill it in.  The paint was too thin and it ran.  I dabbed it and tried to clean it up.  Mbuso didn’t seem to mind. 
 
Then we got some candy and the bracelet and put them inside the box.  It was his.  Something that he didn’t have to share with anyone.  I’ve had so many toys all my life.  Every Christmas and birthday there were more prizes proving that I was special.  This was Mbuso’s first prize and he is very special.
 
In the end, 70 beautifully painted boxes lined the floor.  Each had a story to tell.  We have so far to go if we are to help raise up a generation of Swazis that can find its way out of the cultural death-grip in which it is locked.  But I think it begins with boys like Mbuso learning who they really are.

Comments (5)

  • Dad – Lisa had such an amazing vision. My heart breaks for those precious babies, wish I could hold them all. Love you!

  • Dear Dadi Seth,
    We are so happy that God is using you mighty power and we are praying for you,your all ministry work.
    May God bless You.Pleae if possible send to me these like of meteril for the orphans kids.
    With love and blessings.
    Ps.Emmanuel.

  • That’s one of the most moving things I have read in a long time. What a fantastic thing to do, what an amazing gift to give.

    I look at my little lad and, like so many of our era, I have to work at training him out of the “I want” that is always seeking for treats and new toys.

    Yet he knows the things that matter most. He knows his name, he knows I love him whether his behaviour is good or bad, he knows he is special both to me and to the Lord Jesus.

    God bless those I AM boxes, God bless the touch of His love that is in them, God put in the heart of every child that is given one the knowledge of how truly amazing and special they are in His Kingly eyes.

    lol Cxx

  • Seth,
    This is one of the most powerful posts I’ve read on the blogoshpere in a long time. I had a vision of my 2-1/2 year old Grace having to find her way to a care station a mile away…I guess it hit me harder this morning because we’re on vacation at Disney World for the week. All of the excess that we enjoy here in the states and somewhere else in the world a toddler is walking just to survive. I couldn’t shake the image all day long today.

    Blessings to you and your ministry,
    Brandon

  • My own son, Seth, just got back from Swazi.
    His stories about the orphans, coupled with your story about the I AM boxes really touched my heart.
    God Bless AIM, and the difference that people are making in the lives of the Swazi people.

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