And I get you both!!!
This is the third in a series on finding a mentor. Yesterday, my own son, Seth, in Cambodia with the World Race, wrote this comment: “I decided about a month ago to look for a mentor and have been praying off and on about it.”
And that thrills me, because as much as I want to do it for him, this is something he’s going to have to do for himself. And all of us, if we’re looking for a mentor, are going to need to take this kind of initiative.
However, I can do this – I can share a few lessons I learned about finding a mentor. Here are five:
And I get you both!!!
Seth, THANX! I see from your advise here that culturally, mentoring will take a miracle to really happen in our part of the world. Many barriers will have to fall for it to work. It’s a thing of “honor” to keep back info from the young…younger ones in most cultures here. To invest in another means to give all. How can the elders here come to that level of self emptying in the younger…without the fear of losing prestige? It’s hard to imagine. Getting the right mentor like you’ve highlighted here, will be a divine work of grace…a mega miracle! I will keep praying and trying to hang on tight to the one I “seem to” have.
Uche – My guess is that it all stems from insecurity. The secure leader doesn’t mind being abased – he doesn’t need the ego strokes.
Thanks for the perspective, Uche – as always, it’s good to hear from you.
Thanks for this Seth- God keeps bringing this to my mind lately, that maybe I need a mentor. Do I have tons of awesome people whom I love and respect pouring into my life- yes! But a specific “mentor”, no.
No clue who or where or how to even start ‘looking’, but this blog is helpful. Thanks for the great advice and application.
Thank you for this..
I know this is an old post but it is still valuable.
I’ve been working on the difference between a mentor and a spiritual father because of the group I handle….
This series answered my questions and gave me better insights…
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