Thanks Seth. Welcome home…….
On of the best books (I believe) on this topic is “The Mystery of Marriage”.
And the standardized test and assessment model is fraught with error. People are not an algorithm. There is not prediction per se.
These are tools to help.
But in the end you need people willing to “die” to save the covenant.
It all starts and ends there.
That is two divorces later–neither of which I wanted.