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The future is unknowable – commit anyway

“Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.” – Thomas Edison
Too many people want to keep their options open and miss the opportunity that commitment affords. If I could give my children’s generation a gift, I’d get them out of their coffee …
By Seth Barnes
“Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.” – Thomas Edison
Too many people want to keep their options open and miss the opportunity that commitment affords. If I could give my children’s generation a gift, I’d get them out of their coffee shops and parents’ basements and I’d give them the gift of commitment. You’ll never find your future until you launch – you find it as you commit.
Paul set out for Asia and wound up in Europe. While planting churches in this new land he was shipwrecked, bitten by a poisonous snake, and almost died multiple times. He was at the center of God’s will.
Edison set out to invent the light bulb and failed so many times that he declared, “We now know a thousand ways not to build a light bulb”
Columbus set out to find a passage to the Indies and discovered America. He embarked with none of the usual tools to guide him, saying, “For the execution of the voyage to the Indies, I did not make use of intelligence, mathematics or maps.”
Discovery rarely happens by going in a straight line or hedging your bets. Usually it requires full-fledged commitment. And that’s especially true for those trying to figure out their call or purpose in life.
UVA Business School Dean, Robert Bruner, wrote the following about the process:
“I want the freedom to choose; I want to maximize my options,” a student once said to me, in anguishing over his job search and explaining his career strategy. I averred that maximizing options is a risk management device, not a career strategy and that his approach would yield little freedom and a great deal of chaos. Instead of freedom, he would become a slave to opportunism. I said that one will have to choose eventually; and the sooner he did it, the sooner he would gain the sense of release that comes from commitment. But the reply fell on deaf ears. Some talented people can get lost in the stream of opportunities that float nearby. Instead, getting found inevitably entails making a commitment, getting rooted in something such as a direction, some values, a vision, a partner, or a place. As you head into this recruiting season, will you be lost? Or will you be found?It is said that Columbus discovered the Americas. But that implies a purposeful aim of finding the Americas. Instead, he wanted to find India. Columbus was lost. He significantly mis-estimated the circumference of the Earth and ran aground on the major westward barrier between Spain and India. Lucky for him. We should celebrate his courage and leadership skills. But to say that he really knew where he was going may be saying too much. Arguably, the Americas found him.Columbus sailed without the benefit of intelligence, mathematics, or maps. He journeyed on instinct and courage, qualities that certainly can help the business leader and the job seeker. He also had the theory that the world is round and believed that by sailing west, he would reach the Indies. He was a man with conviction and direction. Given how little Europeans knew about the world in 1492, Columbus was bound to find something new.
If you’re trying to find yourself, it won’t happen by hedging your bets. You need to do whatever prayer and research is reasonable and then commit. As you journey out from your safe harbor, inevitably you’ll feel disoriented and uncomfortable. But it’s the only way you’ll find yourself.
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I’m among those that don’t like to commit, but my life has definitely changed since stepping out there and doing it. I wrote a blog response to this…
http://bit.ly/daglFf
I reposted this on my FB.
Thanks for saying all this. Hopefully, those who have ears will hear it.
As you journey out from your safe harbor, inevitably you’ll feel disoriented and uncomfortable. But it’s the only way you’ll find yourself.
Me and Jan are looking to move into a house only 15-20 minutes away from where we are now. I’ll pick up an extra night working to cover the bills, but there’s a huge homeless community there and we want to be helping them out. But, as a man, I am nervous. Then, I stop and ask Jesus, “What? What do I do?” He then says, “Go”. “I have never let you down.” My legs feel like before a big game, shaky and numb. But, I figure Swaziland was gonna be way harder to adjust to, and Bradford, MA isn’t Swaziland! I love how you draw out the vulnerability and feelings in me. Thanks bro.
I’m in thr throws of being totally committed to an unknowable future – waaaay outside the comfort zone as I try to be radically obedient to God.
I thought it would easier, more comfortable, more peaceful – but this has taken me nose-to-nose with my fear. I’m so close to it, I can see the pores on it’s face.
I was reflecting on the face of fear this morning in prayer and I felt God saying, “Your fear will not serve you where I want to take you.” I realized I would have never seen it if I hadn’t committed to an unknowable future.
God promises His perfect love casts away ALL fear. That is sufficient for me to keep moving forward. God’s got work to do and my fear will not serve me well in His future. I’m not saying I’m not afraid, I’m just saying I trust God enough to keep going.
this is a good word.
Yes! Good stuff!
oh man, preach it!!
Good stuff!
I’ll be passing this one on. As our children grow towards adulthood and many of their friends are now starting college and careers, we have many conversations related to this issue. And as Jim and I walk this journey towards Swaziland, we often don’t have all the answers or “maps”…but still we step forward knowing that following God’s call is going to be beyond amazing!
Thanks for this post- so challenging and true for me. Challenging as I consider what I will do after I graduate college this year, and true for committing to my faith community and advocacy here on my campus not knowing how people will respond or what kind of fruit will come from it.
I also passed this one along to some friends and posted the link on FB!
That quote from Edison is great! who knew that TE could help out a guy to form a sermon!
Just what I needed to hear. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks Seth. I often tell people “faith is a verb”. Once you are on the edge of the high dive one must jump. The ladder is filled with other people who will be inspired by our Holy spirit birthed courage.
Oh man this is exactly what I needed to read. I am in my senior year of college and will graduate in the spring. I plan to take a year off before grad school and devote it to the Lord but just not sure how I can best devote that time to the Lord considering some of the opportunities that I am recently being told about.
May you be blessed this day, my friend…
Just as you and your witness through AIM and your writing bless others!
Thank you for another post marked by clarity and stamped with the signature of the Holy Spirit.
Judith
Great stuff!! I wonder if that Robert fellow is related to Aaron 🙂