Southeast Asia & the sex trade
We’re over here on the other side of the world now. We’ll be debriefing our team from its experience living above a brothel in Viet Nam. They’ve seen eyeful. They’ve been in a twisted and dark place. And it makes me think about how this issue is looming larger in my life.
I didn’t ask to be challenged by the sex trade in Southeast Asia anymore than I asked to be challenged by the the AIDS pandemic in Africa. It’s one of those things that has rattled me out of the pillowed complacency of normal life and demanded that I care. It’s an easy issue to avoid – the sex trade shows the ugly underside of humanity – the part where one human degrades another human for personal pleasure. It’s seamy and evil.
Yet, I can recall how, as a 22 year-old neophyte in Bangkok, I was sadly ignorant. I didn’t understand the issues. Rather than responding with compassion, I viewed the whole thing as a kind of cultural spectacle. No one had prepared me for it and I didn’t begin to see the girls caught up in it as God saw them.
How could I understand the cultural pressures placed on a young girl growing up in the rice fields to care for her aging parents? How could I understand the mix of guilt and disgust she feels in trading her purity in return for money? How could I understand her desperation to turn a trick when she’s been spurned all night? Or the sense of worthlessness she feels from having traded herself away? Who could have explained to me the hopelessness she feels – the sense of being trapped?
My friend and ministry partner in Bangkok, Jim Larson, writes a blog about these struggles and sees them every day. A few examples from his recent experience:
Joy has been sick and discouraged, pulled down yet again by her
dysfunctional mom.Jane has been extra self-centered and shallow.Waw
is tired and depressed.June started worry about money again–probably
her biggest weak spot.Wan left as quickly as she came back and
obviously still needs more time.Mint is just as stuck as ever in a
sick codependent relationship.
In the last few years as more and more of our teams (my oldest two children on two of them) have ministered to girls caught in the sex trade, this issue has thrust itself into my awareness and rattled my cage. These young girls over there need our attention. Kim’s video captures it well.
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The more I learn about this, the more disturbed, angry, and brokenhearted I get! I never dreamed the things I’d be exposed to when I said “God break my heart for the things that break yours”. Glad I’m a part of the AIM family – I see the world through different eyes because of it.
You guys are great – glad to hear your made it safely – hug those Racers for us all! They really are doing awesome things!
WOW, Heartbreaking but the hearts of those young women there serving tells me God has a plan. I pray for each and everyone of your young missionaries in the video that they continue to walk in love as they serve in a climate so dark and unfamilar to home. God bless them all…………Tami
speechless and desperately crying at the same time! help me God… show me God…