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What do you want your funeral to look like?

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OK, some of you will find the blog title to be a morbid question. Who wants to think about death? But on the other hand, who wants to slouch through life never having realized your purpose? I think that if we’d view our lives through the lens of our eventual funeral, we’d live more intentionally …
By Seth Barnes
OK, some of you will find the blog title to be a morbid question. Who wants to think about death? But on the other hand, who wants to slouch through life never having realized your purpose? I think that if we’d view our lives through the lens of our eventual funeral, we’d live more intentionally and be a lot less afraid of death.
 
Too many funerals are dreary affairs. Graham Cooke described the funeral of Amy Crone, a young lady in his congregation. She wouldn’t let them do a typical church service to say goodbye. Reading Cooke describe it, I thought, “That’s perfect – that’s the way I’d like to go out!” Read his description and let me know if you agree.

The funeral was outrageous. Typical of the Crone family. It was a
masterpiece of prophetic pioneering spirit. They set a whole new trend
in graveside committals. No memorial church service, Amy would hate
that. Instead a small number of family and friends met at the cemetery.
We were all instructed to be dressed casually. Lots of jeans, bright
colors, no formal wear. Two stretch limos pulled up and out popped the
Crone family. A lone piper played Amazing Grace as they pulled two ice
chests out of the trunk.

We gathered around Amy’s coffin as David and Deborah spoke movingly
of Amy’s life. Lots of laughter and tears as people told story after
story of this irrepressible young woman whose passion for God and life
could never be dampened no matter how hard life became for her. We
hooted with laughter and blinked away tears at the same moment. We were
all given pink flowers to hold (thanks Amy) and spread over the coffin
in last goodbyes.

Champagne and cider came out of the chests as we toasted the life of
a loyal, sassy, individualist, free spirit who no doubt is teaching
King David how to really dance before the Lord. Bill Johnson gave a
short and moving address on the importance of mourning properly…to let
both joy and sadness move in you…to suppress neither because that’s
harmful, but always let joy have the last word each day. He exhorted
and encouraged us to be true to who God is and to contend always for
Life. Amen to that.

Of course funerals are a time for corporate mourning. But as followers of Jesus, we have to be happy for the home-going of a fellow believer. Amy’s legacy was that of a life-bringer. It’s fitting that her funeral should leave room for a celebration of that fact. How about you – what do you want your funeral to look like?

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